That’s because the claimed OO languages with their classes and methods are imposters and not actually object oriented.
A famous Joe Armstrong quote seems apt:
The problem with object-oriented languages is they’ve got all this implicit environment that they carry around with them. You wanted a banana but what you got was a gorilla holding the banana and the entire jungle.
Joe provides some pretty good definitons on this forum on why Erlang languages are the only real OO languages:
So I wouldn’t hate too hard on real object oriented programming as that is actually what Elixir on the BEAM is.