I use local SMTP server (exim4). It is not easy; You need to have all the SPF/DKIM/DMARC crap setup, and your hosting company allows outbound SMTP.
Some email providers still block my emails though. However, all cheap email senders have the same problem in one way or the other. With your own IP and a fully controlled setup, at least I can fill out complain form.
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