hey guys i cant connect to my db from a new project,
when i attempt to create a new db using mix ecto.setup / mix ecto.create
i am getting this connection error

01:05:10.426 [error] GenServer #PID<0.284.0> terminating
** (Tds.Error) tcp connect: econnrefused
    (db_connection 2.4.1) lib/db_connection/connection.ex:100: DBConnection.Connection.connect/2
    (connection 1.1.0) lib/connection.ex:622: Connection.enter_connect/5
    (stdlib 3.16.1) proc_lib.erl:226: :proc_lib.init_p_do_apply/3
Last message: nil
State: Tds.Protocol
** (Mix) The database for Razo.Repo couldn't be created: killed

am working from a windows 11 machine
my dev.exs

config :razo, Razo.Repo,
  username: "sa",
  password: "Qwerty@12",
  database: "razo_dev",
  port: 1433,
  hostname: "localhost",
  show_sensitive_data_on_connection_error: true,
  pool_size: 10

and my_app.Repo

use Ecto.Repo,
    otp_app: :razo,
    adapter: Ecto.Adapters.Tds