I use the Ergodox Infinity, which has been incredible for me. I put cherry mx reds on it and some grommets so help silence further. The keycaps allow shinethru light but only on the sides of the keys so the tops look clean.
I like that I can assign layers for experimenting with dvorak or colemak layouts without needing to mess with the OS, especially when pairing.
I need the split so my wrists don’t twist inward as much. Also, leveraging the thumbs for common keys like enter and backspace works well for me.