There are a few things I would pay particular attention to when thinking about using LiveView:
Do we need offline support?
Most likely the answer is no but if it’s yes then you can’t use LiveView.
What infrastructure is the application going to be running on in production?
How does it handle websockets?
Are there memory restrictions?
Are you running clustered or single instances?
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Yes, LiveView will have limitations but the architectural limitations are just as important.
How will we deal with latency?
This one is extremely important and easy to forget if you only develop locally or with a high speed connection. Simple dynamic interactions like opening a dialog can suddenly become really jarring because of the latency involved. Alpinejs can help in that specific case but that means you might not be able to solve everything with LiveView alone if you want to have a great user experience.
How will we handle connection failures / application updates etc?
Because the state is on the server, how are you going to persist this state and load it back? The application might be updated, the server might crash. Anything can happen. What do you do then with forms that people are filling in at that exact time or things like that. This is of course not a LiveView specific problem but since it’s different from how most web applications work these days it’s wise to pay attention to it from the start.
Scaling LiveView would actually be the least of my worries. You should be doing load/performance tests specific to your application anyway. Hardly anyone is going from 100 users to 1.000.000 users overnight. And if you didn’t expect that load in the first place then most likely the rest of your architecture will fail before Elixir/Phoenix/LiveView does.
You mentioned high-traffic online newspapers and blogs. If the content is basically static I would do as much as possible with static html and just use a CDN to host it. Any framework would be overkill in that scenario. Maybe you want a personalized newsfeed. In that case the most likely bottleneck will be retreiving all the personal content on the backend so you just have to test it.
I don’t know what caching you’re worried about exactly. LiveView is for dynamic pages. This means you normally want to fetch the latest state once you mount again. That’s no different from Vue/React apps and such. If you want to avoid database calls you should use a caching layer in the backend itself.
What your system can handle will depend on the specific application and the complete infrastructure. That’s why I would say that LiveView itself must be dependable when you use it. It shouldn’t break suddenly. If you should use it depends on the situation.